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Some words are well unsaid


Some Words are well Unsaid
Have you ever wanted to share something with the ones you love, with the people whom you care about?
Ever had that feeling when you want to share something which is eating you from inside but either you are at a loss of words,  some fears stop you or your heart says, "Some words are well-unsaid."
We are humans and as we know humans are really intricate. The trickiest part of humans are expressions. We have an expression for everything. There's one more thing known as feelings. The basic difference between them is expressions are visible on our faces unlike feelings. We can actually say that expressions are the result of our feelings. 
But, sometimes we are unable to express our feelings through expressions. There are times when feelings are too difficult to express through expressions because let’s accept the fact we all are actors. There are times when feelings demand something more than facial expressions to be expressed. 
Happiness is a feeling which is very unfamiliar now-a-days. It can be expressed on your face and in your eyes. Let's exclude eyes because they can hold every feeling inside them. They can express what words can't. But, only few people know the language of eyes. Can anyone elucidate happiness? Let me try. Happiness is a feeling or a state of being happy. The reason could be anything. You can be happy after scoring good marks in your board exams, watching the first day first show of the movie of your favorite actors, spending quality time with your friends and family, etc. Hey, did you notice one thing? The small and basic things of life give us happiness. Then why is this feeling so disregarded and uncommon these days?
Pain is one of the most quotidian feelings we experience these days. A feeling which cannot be expressed through expressions. As written in John Green's novel The Fault in Our Stars -"Pain demands to be felt" uniformly all the other feelings demand to be felt too!!  Feelings are something when kept inside the heart for too long can make your heart wretched. We always need someone to share our feelings, someone who can cherish and acknowledge them. We generally share our feelings with our favorite people, whom we love. Like- best friends, boyfriend, girlfriend, parents, etc. But, feelings are not that easy to be expressed or understood. There are times when feelings cannot be expressed into words as some other feelings like fear makes it even difficult for us to give them the form of words and sentences.

There are times when we want to convey something to our loved ones but certain fears like - fear of being inculpated, fear of distrust, fear of them not understanding us, fear of being judged, etc. People think we don't share our feelings as we think it is a sign of weakness. No. Sharing what is in your heart is one of the lionhearted things to do. I read somewhere that "The unspoken words can be the hardest to say because there is a reason why they are left unsaid". There are millions and millions of words in our hearts which are still not said. These words are kept safe inside our hearts until our last breath. It is important to share your feelings and express them but still sometimes we prefer being quiet. Ever wondered why some words are well unsaid...??




I wanted to tell you something
but a fear stopped me,
what if you blame me?
I tried, I cried
but the fear never left me,
what if you doubt me?
In my mind,
I enacted many times;
How to tell you,
what I was going through?
But my sacred heart never allowed me.
What if you distrust me?
The fear was not because
I was wrong.
No it was not because
I lied.
It was just that the wretched heart said,
some words are well unsaid.




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